Why Some Men Have All the Success Meeting Women Online

When it comes to meeting women online, there are men who understand a simple principle and use it to succeed wildly, while the other vast majority keep failing and merely get hung up on figuring out what exactly they are doing wrong.

That secret is the distinction between the scarcity and abundance mindset. Now, what does this mean?

On a very basic and cursory level, it's simply the fact that winners (in virtually any endeavor of life) view life as having abundance FOR THEM. This means they don't get let down when failure comes their way. They know there is enough success ahead of them, stored for the taking.

They strive to SOLVE the problems ... versus those who adopt a "loser mentality" become overwhelmed by problems.

The same thing applies when we are seeking to attract that amazing partner online. It does not happen right away and many times, you will endure a lot of let-downs before you attract a woman you really click with.

Now, how do you adopt a more successful mindset to get you here?

I have a few practical methods that you can readily use:

1. Find someone who is an example of the abundance principle. He does not get jealous of other men ogling his partner. He knows that he is able to attract women readily. And most importantly, he understands that even if he does fail, it's a momentary thing. Just by virtue of associating with guys like this, it'll do wonders for you.

2. Understand that much of the scarcity mindset is caused by media instead of reality. We think there is an ideal out there in which we do not fit. Should we give up? Women, although similar are also quite different and different enough that there will be plenty of ones whom are mutually attracted to you, regardless of who you are.

Think about it this way.... if we were all attracted to the same thing in reality, from a biological standpoint, we'd become incestuous. Now, that's quite boring and it's not even natural.

3. Roll with your successes. Realize that they can be replicated again and they will. If you're trying to meet women online and fail at first, don't send them hate mail or act bitter ... simply move on and have the abundance principle in mind. Once a success or two comes, you can roll with that even in the face of future failures.