Guide on How to Talk to Girls

So, you want to learn how to talk to girls? What makes you think it's any different from talking to your mother? See, this is the biggest problem with most guys. They think that talking to girls should be done in a "special" or "seductive" way. This is wrong, wrong, wrong! This article tells you why..

The reason why you think that you need to talk to girls differently is because you're nervous. You see a pretty girl, you get in a conversation, and you immediately think, "ok, I have to get her". The fact is, there is not a lot you can do to make her attracted to you apart from being your natural self. The good news is that most guys DON'T act like their natural selves when trying to seduce a girl.

Be Calm & Confident - Just Like When Chatting With Mom!

Right, I know it sounds a bit suss, but think about it. When your mother asks how your day was, you reply with a calm and honest tone. You're not nervous, you're just yourself. You don't stutter, or play with your hair, or touch your face, or lick your lips, you just talk naturally. Take this "mom" technique, and apply it to all the other women in your life.

Just be sure not to treat the girls you're trying to seduce too much like your mom!

Be Interested!

Many guys will tell you that you need to act uninterested to get a girl. There is some truth in that. The idea is to act extremely interested in her, but not too sexually interested. She'll start thinking, "is this guy just naturally interested in the world, or does he really want me? I hope he wants me.." Ask many questions, but let her breath and ask you back. A good sign that she's interested is if she asks you many questions back.

Keep the questions above the belt!

Humour, humour, humour!

Don't be scared to be silly. So many guys (and girls for that matter) are so focused on being cool and macho. This can work for some, but not for all. My personal method of attracting women is to be the confident, happy, funny guy. The fact that you're even reading this article says that you're a creative person, so give it a go.

OK, so there are many, many, many more tips. A short list of things to think about:

- The news, read it! It leads to many great discussions.

- Learn some things in different languages. Really good for hitting on foreign women!

- Make fun of yourself. You want to be cool, so egos are fine, but a "holier-than-thou" attitude is not.