Getting Physical

Most of the topics I have posted here deal with moves and strategies to get the woman you've always wanted. But right now, let's talk about what you have always wanted doing with that certain woman you now have (hopefully) - getting physical with her.

After all the hard work and constant struggle to own that girl, often times, men end up getting cold feet when it comes to "making a move" such as touching her, kissing her or acting a bit more intimate with her. Face it, the fear of being tagged as "pervert" constantly haunts your mind. Why risk losing her just because you acted weird at the wrong time, right? What men usually do is just stick to the "nice guy" persona and wait 'til things heat up before actually starting to make the move.

Be real. Seriously, do you think a woman is willing to make the first move when it comes to getting physical? In reality, women hate it when men don't know how to start making the move. Women have expectations. And most of the time, they want you to meet those expectations. When it comes down to it, you are the one who must lead her to the exciting, sensual experiences she desires.

Most of time, because of intense desires to please her and be intimate with her, men usually makes the mistake of jumping her bones instantly. It doesn't work that way. Go for slow but sure. Touch her appropriately. Hold her hand while crossing the street, offer your hand when getting out of the car or touch the small of her back when you open doors for her. These might be small instances where you are physically in contact with her, but surefire ways to get her comfortable and prepare her for a more of your touch.

Another guaranteed way to make the move is to whisper into her ear. One of the most delicate parts of a woman's body is her earlobes. Use this to your advantage. Send shivers down her spine by sharing a secret by whispering it in her ear. It doesn't really matter what you say, really. Just make it a point to brush your lips "accidentally" on your ear. Believe it or not, you have already ignited a spark in her.

If those previous moves don't work out for you, or perhaps you don't have the guts to do such, why not get what you want the classical way? Ever tried truth or dare, or spin the bottle when you were still young? Work it out that way. Whenever you have the chance to play a game with her, make sure to set some rules like 'whoever makes a mistake must kiss some part of the opponent's body' or 'whoever wins can kiss anywhere on the losers body'. At first she may laugh at it, but in the end, you'll be the one laughing when she begins kissing your hand, arm, neck or any part of your body.

There are so many ways to start getting physical with a woman but there's only one rule associated with it. Never get physical with an intoxicated girl. Not only will you be taking advantage of the moment, but you will also be violating her rights as a person, forcing yourself on something she has no control of. You seriously need some help if you will resort to this.

With these moves I have just posted, you have now an idea on how to start getting physical with the woman you've worked hard for. Just remember to start off slow and build up the fire gradually. Take things to the next level and make your move now.