How to Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend - Take Advantage of Your Time Apart

How to get back with your ex boyfriend might seem to take as much effort as the relationship itself did. The reason is because you are fighting two emotions. The emotions of wanting him back but also the harsh sting of a breakup. They are somewhat polar opposite emotions and thus during this time trusting your instincts is not a great idea. Now is a time for healing and growth with love, support, and wisdom from those closest to you and those that know you best. The reality exists that couples reunite all the time and often the separation was a time of positive growth needed for the relationship to last forever. Take advantage of this time.

How to Take Advantage of this Opportunity!
Tip #1
Learning exactly why your ex boyfriend ended the relationship. Reasons can be many. It could be he felt you were too clingy or just the opposite he wanted more time with you. You need to know search the why the relationship and what pushed him away. This is not a time to raise your defenses but rather a time to look hard in the mirror to grow in areas that perhaps you have not thought about for awhile or areas you have put of f and it has now caught up.

Tip #2
Do not stalk his friends and family. Whatever pushed him away do not take actions that will push him away farther. He wanted space. You need to respect that and adhere to that wish. Calling his friends and family to talk about your ex or to find out how he is doing will get back to him. He will not be happy and will feel betrayed. Remember trusting your instincts is not wise during this time. The very things you think you should do might push him farther away. Stay away from his friends and family.