How to Get a Girlfriend If You're Shy and Lack Self-Confidence

If you're the type of guy who hasn't been lucky with dating girls and you're wondering "how to get a girlfriend?" the good news for you is that it is not going to be too difficult for you to land yourself a girlfriend. You've probably spent more nights in on your own than you care to admit to. All your friends are out on dates, having sex, maybe even getting married and you feel as though life is just passing you by and so are all the beautiful women. Well this article will help you out and show you the first few steps that you need to do to get yourself a simply lovely girlfriend.

Step 1

Confidence! If you've had none or very little success, it's very easy to lack confidence when you're out hoping to meet a woman. So the first thing you should do when you go out is NOT to go looking for a girlfriend. The minute your mind understands that you're out looking for a girlfriend, you will begin to feel pressured and your confidence will go. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, then don't go out with that intention.

Step 2

If you can, go out with a group of confident friends of both sexes and watch and learn how they handle themselves around the opposite sex. Watch both your guy and female friends because you want to see how your male friends approach women and you also want to see how your female friends react to men who approach them.

Step 3

If you can't go out with a group of friends, then your next best bet is to make sure that you have hobbies and interests where you are likely to meet single women. This is one of the easiest ways to meet women and to get a girlfriend.