Do You Need a Date Coach?

Let's take a look at some in the ways people usually meet? The traditional ways are parties, clubs, grocery stores and the list goes on and do forget about online dating.

Most people if asked, "What would your ideal partner be like"? They couldn't really tell you. I believe they couldn't tell you because the mind remembers events that are impressionable good or bad. Since most people have not experience a good relationship they only remember the bad. They could tell you what they don't want. Defining what you want in your life partner is Key.

So take some time to identify what your ideal partner would be like.

Here are some key items that may be important:

• Hygiene


• Style


• Height


• Weight


• Body type


• Personality


• Education

...and this list could go on for- ever.

Use this as a guideline not something etched in stone. So, for example you are looking for some-one 5'5" tall with brown hair and 110lbs. and you meet this amazing women that is 5'2" with black hair don't dismiss her because she is not perfect. You also need to have absolute "deal breakers" like; if she is a smoker it is a "deal breaker". Remember, there is no perfect flower and the same will hold true for your potential partner.

Now here is the hard part. Define what you would think your ideal partner would look for in you. You need to be completely honest with your-self for this work. If you are asking your-self "why is that important"? We'll the same hold true for them looking at you. All people have standards, some are higher than other but we all have standards.

If you have completed those two items it's time to start looking for this ideal person. This will be like finding a needle in a haystack and often almost 9 times out of 10 you won't find this person where you are looking.

Some of these ideas will give you a better chance of finding that person.

When finding your ideal partner you need to have something in common. Even if it's something small, like you both like the same cheese. When in your search, pick out a couple of passions that you have. Now out of those passions on your list you should pick out the ones that a woman would have an interest. For example, Deer Hunting may be a passion of yours but not a-lot of women deer hunt. Not, to say they don't Deer hunt but the numbers are few. Let say you picked cars. Women like cars but not the same way guy's do. Just the same, they will go to races, auctions and swap meets. I Hope you get the idea.

The above ideas are actually the easy part. The hard part is having the qualities that attract women. This is how a date coach can help you find and attract that ideal partner. The qualities that you may need work on are most important!

You may meet that ideal person but she is turned off or not attracted because you don't show confidence, body language, humor, and style... the list goes on. The things that need to happen, for two people to get together are huge and you need to be prepared.

When choosing a coach you should pick someone that has a lot of experience in the dating world. Someone like my self is going to give the years of experience of dating ...we'll lets just say with a lot of women. The next thing you need to look for is are they natural or trained. What I mean by that is, did they learn from some-one else how to attract women or are they a natural with women? They both there advantages and dis-advantages. Some of the positives a trained person can give you are the explanation why a woman might be attracted to you but may not have the experience with certain women. Where the natural can help you with the How but may not be able to explain the Why. The Ideal is someone who is both.

You do always have a choice. You can learn on your own and may take years or you can find a good coach that make the road to finding your ideal partner a fun and exciting journey.