9 Dating Tips to Get a Guy to Like You Using Text Messages - So You Can Flirt Without Seeing Him

Getting a guy to like you is not as hard as some woman might think. From a guy's point of view and from my own experiences and others as well, I have compiled 9 proven tips to get a guy to like you using only text messages. But, this is not just another ordinary simple tip. I'm going to let you know some more specific tips that you can actually apply straight away. So let's start. I'm sure you can find many tips on how to get a guy to like you around the internet or other media sources but I have see so little or so few of them that actually narrow down to a specific subject or situation.

And for that instance I am not just going to give you tips on how to get a guy to like you but I am going to be a little bit more specific by giving you 9 tips on how to get a guy to like you using text messages.

Why using text messages? Because we use it all the time. And they way we communicate in real life and in text messages is different. So, if you like a guy, and you don't have the chance to met him and the only means of communication with him is through text messages, here's a guide to 'text to his heart'.

Be expressive in your messages. The problem when you communicate using text messages is the absence of facial expressions. So it is advisable if you can put some expression in your text messages. For example, if you he said something sweet, end your response by adding your emotions in brackets. In this case, (blushing). It gives the idea of how you are feeling at that time. Go on and be creative with this.

Use open ended questions. Avoid as much as you can using questions that lead to yes or no only. Use questions that will lead him telling you his views or what are his thoughts. This will keep the conversation going and certainly keep his attention on you.

Tackle his weak points. Give some time to know him and you will notice his weakness points. Use that to your advantages. For example, if you know that guy loves a funny girl, show him your funny side. Text something that makes him laughs. But just remember not to overdo this. You don't want him to get the idea that you are goofy all the time.

Never do long stories. Lets face this, guys have short attention span. And girls love to have a long talk. If you don't want to bore him, keep your story short. Plus he'll pay attention more if you keep it short and he can respond better.

Keep him wanting more. This is one of woman's secret weapons. If you notice that the guy starting to like you bit my bit, spend less attention on him. Somehow, try to show that you are not just focusing on him and you have your own thing. The best way to do this is to show him that there are other guys that want you as well. This will give the guy a challenge and guys like challenges. He will want you even more.

Focus on the conversation. One thing about guys that you have to know is that when doing something, we focus on just one thing. So if you want to tell him a story for example, focus on the story before you jump into another one. Or else he will get confused and loose interest.

Respect his time. Pick the right time to text message him. Don't text him when he is busy or he is hanging out with his buddies unless he says its okay for you to do that.

What are his favorite things? Keep up to date with his favorite things. If he is into football, get to know a little a bit more about his favorite team. You don't have to go into details but by sharing what he likes, he will appreciate that. Plus, you can get him talking if you start a conversation on his favorite football team.

Call out his names. If you refer him by using his name, you will give him that special feeling that you acknowledge his name. We all like when we hear the other person talking to us call us by our name. It's a universal thing.

Be sure to remember that getting him to like you through text messages is not enough to create attraction. In order to do that you will need to go deeper into many more factors.