Dating Advice - How to Get the Man You Are Dating to Commit to You!

One of my best guy friends recently went through one of the longest periods of being single in his life. He is usually one that goes from one relationship to another within a few months of them ending and they are normally long term. He has struggled to get a woman to go out more than once and it really is not his fault. Here is some fantastic dating advice to make sure the man you are dating does not misread your signals.

First, get over the stupid dating games that have been created. Sure we all like to flirt and make it fun, but the games that includes waiting 3 days to call or waiting so long for other certain things are ridiculous. Also, if you are one that will not commit until after so many dates you need to throw this out the door, too. You cannot put a time frame on love or a relationship and all you will do is either drive him away or scare him off with these ridiculous games.

Second, be honest about your feelings early on. If you are feeling the guy and you want to be committed to him, then tell him this. However, do not do it in a forceful manner that makes him feel like he has to either commit to you or move on. Softly tell him that you want to be in a relationship with him and you are not going to date anybody else. Make sure he understands you do not expect the same commitment from him right away, but that this is where you would like to see the relationship go to.

Last, be honest about your shortcomings and your past right off the bat. This is probably the best piece of dating advice that my best guy friend gave me. He clued me in that he had been out on a date with a very beautiful woman that was very honest with him about the mistakes from her past. This allowed him to open up about his past and not feel like he was going to be judged because of it. This is the type of dating advice that should be followed if you want to get your guy to commit to you.