He Has Moved On - How Do I Get Him Back? Take These 7 Steps

The feeling can be so terrible to see the one you love move on without you and you are wondering and asking for help on "how to get my ex back when he's moved on". You don't have to go all yourself go through the emotional trauma because you may not have lost him forever. The following are some tips on how you can learn to get your ex back even if it appears your ex has moved on with another woman and no longer appears to be interested in you.

1-To get back the man of your dreams, the first thing to do is for you to find a way to convince him and make him still want you. Unless he really does not want to have anything to do with you, then there are a number of steps that you can employ to still make him come back to you.

2-One of the best ways of going about this is to be around him without choking him. Make a really good friend to him, make him realize that you understand him and can be around him without causing a bad scene or creating any drama. Make him feel relaxed when you are around him and show him that you can have a healthy friendship with him. When all the stress and emotions that lead to the break up have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again.

3-Your communications with your ex boyfriend should be sweet and kind but don't be afraid to give him a little bit of attitude. In as much as you will want him to want you, don't give him an impression that you are readily available. Playing games with your ex may not be the best way to go about getting him back, but playing hard to get will make him want you and more interested in coming back to you.

4-Playing a little hard to get with your ex boyfriend can be helpful as long as you also make him realize that you are available. Make him somehow jealous by flirting and hanging out with friends. But it is important that you play it safe because if he does not think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.

5-Don't act desperate or give your ex boyfriend the impression that you want him at all cost. If you give him that impression, he will under estimate you. You have to let him know that you are in control and that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on. Acting desperate will worsen things and won't make things work out, so you have to avoid acting that way at all costs.

6-If you catch him looking at you or have a feeling that he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This kind of sidelong glance will let him know you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of way.

7-Bring up the good memories that you have heard together with him. These will make him remember how good the two of you used to be together. Forget about the bad memories, because it will only hurt him and maybe you too. Remember only the good memories and it will help move him to want you back.

These are just the first steps in winning your ex back. They are the initial steps some people that wanted their ex back have taken and it produced good results for them.