How to Be Cocky and Funny With Women

You've probably heard the saying, "nice guys finish last," over and over, particularly when the discussion is about the dating game. Sure, being nice and polite is a good thing in dating, but it'll only get you so far with a new woman - good luck getting into a relationship that'll last longer than the short term. To really captivate her, you'll need a more exciting, unusual personality - cocky and funny.

Being cocky and funny is a winning combination when it comes to talking to new women, and they must go together. If you're only cocky, women will think you're a jerk. If you're only funny, you run the risk of being friend-zoned - in addition to looking just plain cheap. But when you're cocky and funny, you'll be showing women something they see very rarely - a very confident man who has his act together.

You'll be surprised how women warm up so readily to men who "get it," and being cocky and funny is one of the best ways to show them exactly this. But don't go thinking it's an easy thing to do - becoming cocky and funny takes a lot of practice. It's admittedly one of the most difficult things to learn, but don't be surprised - nothing this great ever comes easily.

If you want to get used to being cocky and funny, there's only one simple rule to follow - practice! Try to be slightly cocky and slightly funny whenever you meet a new woman, even if you're not attracted to her. That's right, try it out on salesladies, counterpersons, and even telephone operators. If it doesn't work out, don't worry - she'll probably forget you after a few days. If it does work out, well, then both of you will be very pleasantly surprised!

But remember that being cocky and funny is an applied art - when there's a possibility of not being cocky and funny enough, there's also the possibility of taking it a little too far. The key is to know just how cocky and funny you need to be with a new woman. Again, practice will show you this.

When you practice being cocky and funny enough, you'll soon be able to make it as second-nature to you as breathing. And when you do, you'll be enjoying the company of attractive women who can't get enough of your unique personality - and you'll be wondering why you didn't believe in "nice guys finish last" much sooner.