Actively Seeking Women Vs Naturally Attracting Women

When it comes to attracting women there are essentially two ways to do it, the first is actively seeking women out through a variety of different ways that serve at its core no other purpose than to meet women; some examples of this would be online dating or going to the bar and club scenes.

The other way is simply creating the kind of life that you want to live and then simply inviting the women that you are attracted to into your life.

Of course, creating the kind of life that you want to live is much more challenging to do than simply signing up for an online dating site or going out to the bar or club as those things are already in place for you.

However, once you set up the kind of life that you want to live it is far easier to attract women because just like the bars, clubs, and online dating you have done the work for them now all they have to do is show up.

Perhaps, you are wondering, what are some ways in which you can create the kind of life that you want to live and at the same time use it as a potential place to meet and attract women.

Whether you realize it or not there are two things that I can safely assume about you just by the mere fact that you are reading this right now.

1. You have access to a computer and the internet


2. You have a desire to improve yourself in a variety of different way

Knowing this, a great way for you to get started in the process of creating the kind of life that you want to live is by creating a meet up group on MeetUp.com based upon your desire to improve yourself.

Once you do that you will be amazed at the amount of people that will begin showing up at your meet up groups.
Of course, what this also does is allow you the opportunity to give women that you are attracted to an open invitation to come join you in your life.

While, a lot of women might not necessarily be into whatever kind of group it is that you are leading no matter what it is actual proof in your ability to lead other which is a trait that most women find attractive.

In the end, you can continue to actively seek out women by going to places that you more than likely don't want to be but are already established as places to meet women which makes it easier for you to do or you can begin to take control of your life and create the kind of places that you want to be and simply invite women into your life that way.