Here's How to Completely Disarm a Man - He Will Not Be Able to Get You Off His Mind

Has someone ever been nice to you for no reason? I bet the first thing that goes through your mind is "I wonder if this person wants something from me?"

We are programmed to defend ourselves from being taken advantage of. This is no different when it comes to men. Men have stereotypes about women. Many BELIEVE that a woman will do anything to get a commitment.

Have you ever heard this term from a guy - "There are a lot of crazies out there"

I can't tell you how many times I have heard men complain about women who are "crazies" Funny thing...a lot of women think that it is the stalker type women men think are "crazies"

But this is not the case. It is normal women who display "crazy" behavior. Behaviors like asking, "Where is this relationship going?" To a man, this type of question will put you in the crazy category. It might seem like an innocent question but when a man hears this, he'll think of you as desperate for a commitment.

The way to disarm a man is to completely move away from his inner resistance. You can only do this when you're not giving up as much. If you are friendly without ANY hints of wanting a commitment, this will cause him to think of you more because he will find himself constantly trying to defend his ego.

The problem that women get into is sleeping with the man which makes them emotionally and sexually vulnerable. They don't do the work to build an amazing connection with a man. When you take the time to build the attraction with a man, he will not be able to forget you.

Here's what you can say right now to a man you have interest in...make sure the timing is right and do it in a playful manner. With men, you have to do a lot of friendly bantering to build sexual tension and increase attraction. A man will not be able to see past your physical if you do not GET inside his mind.

Ok. The phrase is, "Hmm...I think I need to stop talking to you." Say it like you're up to something. Drop it. Change the subject.

When a man hears this, he thinks, "Why would she want to stop talking to me? After all, I'm SO amazing."

Because you are pushing away from his natural tendency to resist a commitment, he'll want to convince you that you're wrong.