What to Say on a Date With a Man

Its hard to know what's going on in a man's mind. That why relationships can be incredibly frustrating sometimes. In this article we'll delve deep into the depths of the male psyche so you can understand men's mind's better and improve your dating and relationships with the opposite sex. 

There is nothing wrong with talking about whatever you want on a first date. Talk about sex, politics, religion, football your ex or any other weird stuff your into. It's your life and you should be proud of it. 

The danger lies in going about it the wrong way. If you casually mention you're into a weird sex act and then let it drop without explaining further the guy your dating may not fully understand. If it's something he hasn't come across before he may have quite a few preconceived notions about it. You have to put his mind at rest and explain the full facts of the situation so he's not scared off. That's why its best to leave these things to the second or third date so he's not immediately going to go running for the hills. Once he's had a chance to get to know you better 'weird' or 'strange' aspects of your life or personality won't seem so weird or strange. 

Of course some men won't be able to handle it whenever you tell them. But you don't want to date these guys anyway. It can be frustrating to have to wait until the third date to drop a bombshell like the fact that you have a child but its for the best. It means the quality guys will be ready to hear you out. 

So I hope you understand men just a little bit better now. And remember there are loads of quality guys out there so whatever you do, don't settle!