The Importance of Your Mindset When it Comes to Attracting Women

Do you know that the state of mind that you're in has a huge effect on the overall results you achieve with women.

These days EVERYBODY wants to know about 'pick up lines' and 'routines' as they are under the impression that this will be the solution to their dating issues. CODS WOLLOP!!! (I love that word)

Seriously guys, get real! The answer to having success with women is in becoming the type of man that women are naturally attracted to. This is somebody that is, 'Internally Strong', 'Self Validated', 'Relaxed' and 'Playful' and has the 'ability to CONNECT with other people'.

These are some of the ingredients that you need. It's not about changing your personality, but rather taking what you already have and adopting some new traits. No manipulation or being fake.

This feels so right and gets the results too. You must do the inner work and really get your act together before you can experience permanent change.

If you are fixated on having the right lines and still think that this will be the answer... Continue reading.

A common set of questions that I get asked...

"What do I say"? "I want to know what to say". "If I just had the right things to say would I be successful"

My answer...

"What you say is not nearly as important as the person (you) who is saying it"...

Interpretation... Women are not looking at what you are saying... They are more interested in the type of MAN that you are and how you come across.

When I get bombarded with the "what do I say" questions...

My advice is this;

Say whatever you want and feel at the time like saying and rather focus on connecting through listening.

Some Home Truth... If you get your mindsets under control... With practice and experience out in the real world, you will develop better communication and conversational skills. You won't have to worry about running out of things to talk about and in turn will get to focus on listening and connecting...

This will make you a lot more effective!

If your goal is to go out and meet a wonderful life partner that has her ACT together... You need to match this by having your act together. Simple!

No special pick up line will enable you to attract this type of partner. YOU NEED GOOD SOLID GROUNDING!

I always think of this ratio when it comes to communication.

93% of communication is through bodylanguage

7% of communication are the words.

Think about.

Colin