Top Three Reasons Why it is Good to Be Into Dating, Love Or Marriage

This article touches on the top three reasons why it is good to be into dating, love or marriage. It does not serve to denounce the choice of singlehood by some who would rather choose singlehood as their way of life, as everyone has his or her right of choice, be it singlehood or otherwise. Choosing to remain single does have its own good legitimate reasons as well, and I respect the choice of every individual.

The Power of Love

When we are in love, there is this something that is hard to explain, stirring in our heart, that adds strength, courage, excitement, thrill, joy, confidence, hope and many other positive emotions to our life. Anyone who has ever fallen in love will understand what I mean. These feelings differ from those feelings of our love that we have for our parents, siblings, relatives or friends. Yes, there is no doubt we can experience love for and closeness with them, but these feelings of love are different from and cannot be exchanged with the love we feel for and the intimacy we share with our life partner. This kind of love we have for each other adds a sprightly spring in our step, spurring us on to start each day full of exciting anticipation.

A Burden Shared Is Half the Burden, A Joy Shared Is Twice the Joy

Although our life partner may not be able to help us solve our every problem when it arises, the burden is halved because we have him or her to share our problem with. Just by lending us a listening ear, our partner has already lightened our burden because our pent-up frustration has found a release. On the other hand, it adds to our joy when we share our joy with our beloved partner, rather than keeping the joy to ourselves.

Bidding Farewell to Loneliness

We can kiss loneliness goodbye when we have a life partner. Granted, even if we do not have a life partner, we can still leave loneliness behind by being in the company of our friends, siblings, parents or relatives but this is only for a while. Loneliness returns as soon as our friends, siblings, parents or relatives depart to go on with their own lives. After all, unlike our life partner who is with us even into our sleeping hours, these people are not able to do that, as they have their own lives to lead.