When it comes to being on a date with a woman, a lot of men will wonder what to say to make her feel attracted to them. Most men seem to struggle in this area. They are unsure of what to say so that they come across as a man she wants to get to know better and not be a bore to her. Being able to hold a conversation with a woman is not that hard. But, being able to use conversation to build attraction can be a little trickier.
What are some conversation secrets that you can use when you are on a date with a woman?
1. Make sure the conversation is not just about YOU. When you are out with a woman, you want to engage her in the conversation as well. You don't want her to feel as though everything is all about YOU. If you make this mistake, you will lose her interest very quickly and also her attraction for you. You have to be able to make it a two way exchange that flows very well.
2. It's not an interview. When a man is out with a woman and he is looking for thins to say to her, quite often he will start to talk as if it were more of an interview than anything else. Or, he will ask her questions that are more like an interview than a getting to you situation. Talking to a woman should be a fun experience for YOU and for HER. And we all know that interviews are anything but fun for most people.
3. Keep it fun, light, and entertaining. As long as you talk to a woman in a way that flows smoothly, is light hearted and entertaining for you and for her, you should do just fine. Most men will fail to generate a real rapport with a woman as they are more nervous about coming across as the "right" guy. Just have fun and make sure that you do not lose her interest by boring her or prodding her for answers. Make her laugh now and again. This will help to build her attraction even more for YOU.
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