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среда, 28 октября 2009 г.

Do You Hand Out Your Emotions? Find Out Why This Will Ruin Your Dating Chances Every Single Time!


While men are often attributed to being logical, and often are known for suppressing their feelings, you may be surprised to know then, that there is one illogical thing almost every guy out there does: handing out your emotions too early. Now you may not think you have done this, but trust me, when you have that gorgeous and "perfect" lady standing in front of you, you will not find it hard to want to share exactly how you feel with her. But let me tell you, that is a big mistake, and there's a reason guys are supposed to suppress their feelings for a time. Read on to find out why you are ruining your dating chances by handing out your emotions.

She's the one - OK, so let's say you think she is the one, but the most unfortunate mistake you can make is to share with her exactly how you feel too early on in the relationship. You just started dating, and a lot of guys will blurt out "I love you" within the first week of even talking, and women find this very creepy, and in fact find you to be too clingy.

Early feelings should sit - You like her, you love her, you think she is fantastic, whatever the case may be, but you should let these feelings sit. The main reason is because she needs to be challenged. If you just suddenly hand out your emotions, heart, and feelings to her, she won't really feel like there is much left to learn about you or anything interesting anymore. But why is this so? Well, you have literally just told her that you are easily won over, and also have just sent her the message that she can now have control over the entire situation, because if she were to say she didn't feel the same way, you would instantly become desperate.

Attention comes easy - You also need to remember that attractive women get a lot of attention from men, so your affection towards her is nothing new. She really doesn't mind that you feel attracted towards her, or even if you love her early on, because she is used to this, and she wants something different, and it's your job to show her that you are different.

She expects it - You should know that she is going to expect you to have feelings for her, and she is also expecting you to kiss up to her, and put her on a pedestal. But in the end, what she wants is for a man to bring her back down to earth and create a real challenge for her, and to do this, you have to stop handing out your emotions.

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