If you're the kind of woman who take your relationship way too seriously, you're not going to be able to trigger the right feelings of attraction in men to want marriage.
Many women remain uptight, totally caught up in trying to get guys to commit, worried, frustrated and angry when men aren't doing what they want. They forget to get a life or live their lives outside of a man.
A huge mistake is the area of compatibility. Women confuse the great connection they have with a man with compatibility. These are two separate things. You may have chemistry, attraction or a connection but when a man is resisting you, don't want marriage at the moment, can't see himself settling down anytime soon or don't want kids, the missing element is compatibility.
When you are ready to take the relationship to the next stage and he doesn't want the really important things that matter to you, this means you're not compatible.
So you have a few choices: You can try to get a man to want more who's clearly not compatible with you, you can learn the secret skills of psychological persuasion to get a man to want to propose or you can move on and start dating other guys.
Many women don't like to hear this because they are not willing to grow up or learn the skills to get a man to propose. They stay. They settle. They try to get the guy to WANT.
Women who get marriage do certain things and women who don't remain unmarried. It is proven over and over again that when a woman is ready to take the relationship further and gives the man an opportunity to do so but he declines, she shouldn't stay and try to convince him to want what she wants.
She'll have a much better chance to get him to marry her IF she increases a deep subconscious level of attraction then create a vacuum. This vacuum is where she brings the relationship to the tipping point by offering him a chance to take it further but if he's not ready, she'll create an empty space or move on.
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