How to Talk to Any Guy Without Fear

Do you wish it was easier to strike up a conversation and talk to any guy without feeling shy or embarrassed? Do you avoid talking to men because it makes you feel uncomfortable? Do you wish there was a way to feel more confident when speaking with a man? Most people have a little bit of insecurity about striking up a conversation with a perfect stranger, but you can learn how to talk to any guy without fear.

The thought of engaging in conversation with a handsome man you just met can create a lot of anxiety. You may fear saying something stupid or worse not having anything to say at all. You can overcome these fears by following a few simple tips.

Keep the focus on him

Interestingly enough, advice for women on a first date is to keep the focus on the guy. And surprise, the advice for men on a first date is to avoid talking about himself and keep the focus on the lady he's with. And this actually creates a good first date dynamic because you are both trying to find out more about each other which keeps things interesting and prevents one person from domineering the entire conversation.

But have no doubt, when given the chance, most men will eagerly talk about themselves because they want to impress you. Use this to your advantage and take the pressure off of yourself.

Show him that you appreciate the things he is saying

If a man feels that you are interested in what he has to say, he'll usually have no problem carrying the conversation. If he's funny, laugh. If he asks you a question, give him your honest opinion. You can't sit there like a wall flower and say nothing, but you can let him do most of the hard work of keeping the conversation flowing. If there is an awkward silence make an observation about something around you.
Maybe there is an interesting piece of artwork in the restaurant that you can comment on. Or ask his opinion about something. If you've never been to the restaurant before ask for his recommendation.

Use questions to keep the conversation going

Finally, the best and easiest way to talk to any guy is to ask questions. Questions are natural ice breakers and the possibilities are endless. Just don't pry if you stumble on a sensitive topic accidentally. Say you're sorry and move on.

Use these tips to feel comfortable talking to any guy in any situation. Chances are he'll be using the same strategy which means you are bound to learn a lot about each other in the process.