Aren't you amaze at the bewildering amount of information that there is about weight loss? Volumes have been produced in the form of books, audio books, CDs, DVDs, manuals, documentaries and articles. I know some online marketers who make their living just from churning out weight reduction material. Ever so often new diets, pills and magic formulas sprout up about how to effortlessly shed fat. Yet only a few people manage to permanently lose weight. In fact more people seem to be becoming overweight.
Yet the amazing truth is that there is a simple and fundamental formula that everyone knows will permanently reduce the extra layers of fat - eat less (or less junk food) and increase physical activity (burn up the extra calories).
Similarly many trees have been cut down to produce a vast amount written material about attraction and beauty. Tons of CDs, DVDs and web pages have also added to the overwhelming potpourri of advice about how to seduce and attract men.
The media gives the impression that all you need to do is to keep slim, wear sexy and expensive clothes, apply vast layers of makeup, make sure you have a fantastic hair style and bat your eyelids to have men drooling for you.
Well some of that works if you want to attract men who are only after one thing - sex. They will hunt you like bull dogs hound bitches who are in heat. However I suspect that you want something much more meaningful than that. You want someone who is attracted to you for all the right reasons - because of who you are as a human being.
I know of some experts who say you should play hard to get - there is actually a popular book about how to go about doing this. Not many women succeeded with that type of advice. Others contend that you should play the game. Still others think that you should treat men firm and in some instances be horrible to them. I am not sure how far you would get with that though.
Well I am going to tell you the truth. I will tell you the whole truth and nothing but the truth. As much as you would like men to be attracted to you for how lovely you look and the great personality have, most men are driven to a woman because something very simple and fundamental. It's so simple that I am absolutely amazed that many bright and intelligent people miss it.
Men are attracted and would find you irresistible simply by the way you make him feel when he is with you. Yes how you look will initial attract his eyes, but that is not what will keep him riveted to you.
So how does a man want to feel? He wants to feel respected. He wants to feel that he is a man, a leader, a powerful individual. He wants to be admired, adored, acknowledged and appreciated. He wants woman who will praise him; have pride in him; feel proud about him.
Those my dear girl are the basics and bases of being irresistible to a man. Everything else is secondary. It doesn't matter too much if you are tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, if you are able to feed his need to feel great as a man, you will have him eating out of your hands.
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