Sweet Things to Say to Your Girlfriend (Guys Who Don't Do This Eventually Get Dumped!)

Are you one of the many guys who find it hard to come up with sweet things to say to your girlfriend?

It's no surprise! Most guys find out the hard way that they need to shower our girlfriends with plenty of verbal affection. However, by the time they realize this fact, many have lost some pretty amazing babes, all because they didn't know how to romance her.

Coming up with sweet things to say to your girlfriend is essential if you want her blossom before your very eyes. I know the media has this apparent bent against guys, but the truth is there are a lot of GREAT guys out there who really care about their girlfriends, wives and lovers and they want to treat them special and make them feel loved.

It is a fact; women love it when their man melts their hearts with romantic interludes. Secretly they crave guys who know how to turn them on with tender, charming, sweet words filled with passion and laced with sensual seduction.

Coming up with sweet things to say to your girlfriend isn't rocket science! Yes, it is true; women aren't that easy to figure out. Let's be honest, girls are interesting creatures to say the least. Just when you think you understand them or have them figured out, they throw you for a major loop. They do everything in their power to be the most beautiful girl in the world, but they hate it when guys seem to be fixated on their beauty, breasts and booty.

Ok guys, just understand, that's part of the charm and mystery of interacting with opposite sex. It's what keeps us sharp and on our toes. And besides, since you know they're not going to change, (and what smart guy would want them to anyway) learn how to be a smooth operator and use their femininity to your advantage. Having and coming up with sweet things to say to your girlfriend is one surefire way to woo her heart and have her thinking about you romantically, sensually and sexually.

HOT GUY TIP: If she's not thinking, dreaming and fantasizing about you on those three levels, your relationship with her won't be going very far!

HOT GUY TIP: Guys, learn how to talk the language of love and you'll have your girlfriend, lover or wife yearning for you like a bee yearns for nectar.

The Alpha Male Mystique - Find Out Why Women Adore Them and Why Guys Want to Be Like Them

What is an Alpha Male?

I was recently asked by a buddy of mine, "What exactly is an Alpha Male and what's all this talk about them?" (I agreed not to reveal his real name, so I'll change it to Logan). I've got to be honest; he asked that question sarcastically in a belittling and somewhat of a besmirching manner. You need to know a little about Logan and understand his background to see why he had an issue with Alpha Males.

-Logan has a sweet Trust Fund from his Grandparents
-Logan graduated from an IVY League school
-Logan has a cream puff job making $175,000 annually
-Logan has a condo in Miami and a Town home in NY
-Logan drives a Porsche 911, a Lincoln Navigator and a Mercedes SL500
-Logan has never paid one bill late, not ever
-Logan has three attorneys on retainer

Even with all of that, at 28-years of age, Logan has never had a steady girlfriend! Why you ask? Two reasons.

1. He's a member of the Shy Guy Society
2. He's self conscious about his looks; people say he looks like Michael Phelps

Fast Forward To What Prompted The Sarcastic Questions

The previous night Logan hung out at the Club Mansion in Miami, Florida. If you don't know, this is probably one of the hottest clubs in Miami. Hot Girls are everywhere and yet, Logan walked out and did not connect up with one single solitary babe. Forget about getting a phone number, he didn't even get a name or a dance. It was like he was at the club but he was invisible. Seeing all those gorgeous babes having fun with other guys and he walked away with nothing, he was bummed! He called me the next day to tell me that CLUB MANSION sucked? I'm like, "Dude, are you kidding me, that's a freakin meat market filled with some of the sexiest and most fun loving babes on the planet, what do you mean it sucks?"

He proceeded to tell me how those hot girls are all stuck up, prissy and this, that and the other; he was totally negative. So I finally said to him, "You need to switch teams and become a Alpha Male!" When I said that, Logan went on the defensive and started giving me the proverbial, "I'm a shy guy speech..." I used to be like Logan that's why I wasn't empathetic to his Beta Male excuses. He tried to persuade me that certain people are born shy and there was nothing they could do but live with their lot in life.

Once again, I'm like, "Dude, you need to stop being a freakin wuss, join the winning team and I promise you, your lot in life will change! You will become the guy that gets the girl." After a few more hours of fruitless debating and pontificating on being born shy, Logan finally relented and decided to overcome his shyness, disregard his looks and become the kind of guy he use to envy. The truth is, Alpha Males are great guys; the type of guys women adore, parents love and Beta Males despise.

They are the type of guys in which the mainstream media, feminist organizations, and other misinformed groups and individuals have mistakenly tagged as: BAD BOYS, JERKS, THUGS and males who display unbridled aggression. That my friend is truly unfortunate and can literally be classified as slander. Here's The True Definition of an Alpha Male...

-They are True Leaders
-They are Good Communicators
-They Don't Crack Under Pressure
-They are Loyal To Their Family and Friends
-They are Decisive
-They are Honest
-They are Protectors
-They are Self-Confident But Not Arrogant
-They are Go-getters
-They are Comfortable in Their Skin
-They are Men of Courage
-They are Loving
-They are Kind
-They are Considerate
-They are Lovers

It is these traits that makes Alpha Males so irresistibly attractive to women.

How to Find a Russian Mail Order Bride

When it comes to mail order brides, Russians are the top most choice of most men from different countries. This is because Russian girls are very open minded in the idea of mail order brides and a lot of women there are focused on marrying at a certain age.

To find a Russian girl to marry, you need to sign up on different sites that offer mail order brides. They have a wide selection of beautiful women that it would be difficult for you to choose which one to communicate with first.

The key to find the right Russian mail order bride for you to marry is to make an impressive profile with extensive details about your qualities and the qualities that you want your partner to have. If you're sincere and honest with everything you put in your profile, women will see this. Quality women will see this.

The next step to finding your bride to be is to start sending messages to women who interest you. Don't compromise on the women's qualities you've listed because it's important that you get along with the woman a hundred percent or the point in signing up for a mail order bride website would be useless, wouldn't it?

If you're really interested with a person and she's also interested with you, then scheduling a date would be easy enough, especially if there's a consensus between the two parties. If it happens that the girl you're interested in is not interested in you, then don't sulk and cry in a corner. There are a lot of other girls there you're going to meet. Just enjoy the experience and be sure that you learn from your failed dates so that the next time you go on a date with another woman, you know what to avoid and what to do.

Sub-Communication - The Importance of the Message Behind the Message

No matter who you are, your skill at communicating will determine whether you are moving closer to being the mightiest of the mighty or the lowliest of the lowly.

In any major city in any part of the world, you can be sure there are two things you do your best to avoid: 1) rats and 2) beggars. It's a stiff competition to decide which is worse.

So I'm walking down the street one day and come across a beggar with a sign that says:

HELP! My family's been kidnapped and I'm $1 short of the ransom!

Wow! I gave him a dollar. And I'm sure I'm not the only one. I bet you have your own favorite story of giving money to a beggar, not because you felt bad for him, but because he communicated better.

Like the beggars livelihood depends on good communication so does your success with women.

You can have your health together, you can have your world under your thumb but unless you can communicate effectively, the women you want to bring into your life will never know it.

What do your clothes communicate about you? Is your shirt ironed, and neatly tucked in? Is your hair disheveled? Do you go with the clean shaven look or are you sporting the perpetual five-o'clock shadow ? Are you wearing muted earth tones or vibrant colors?

The answer to these questions isn't so important as what they communicate about you. A rocker and a business executive would have two totally different ways of dressing, and both of them are right.

The rocker appeals to a certain kind of women wholly different from what the business executive is looking for. Of course, if the guy in the business suit wants to be with a hippie chick, he's got to lose the suit and communicate an entirely different message (the rocker too, actually). They have to represent themselves in ways that match their intended targets.

So do you.

But, let's dig into some more of your sub-communication (sub-coms for short): body language, voice, eye contact, and facial expressions for starters. These are distinct and have much more powerful effects than your verbal communication, no matter how good it is, can ever have, because they are processed subconsciously and subliminally.

This is the essence of what creates your vibe. Once again, one is not better than another unless you have a particular goal and that means knowing what you want. But that's for another time. When you watch those chick flicks we talked about, notice how few words the alpha males use to communicate with with major impact.

Or check out your favorite comedian. Sure, his jokes are important, but think of the importance of the delivery. I bet you can think of people-amazing people with awesome stories, who are incredibly B-O-R-I-N-G.

It's not the topic, it's their sub-coms that sabotage the message. Become a student of powerful men whose presence packs a particularly strong punch and start to assimilate and incorporate what you see. Because women are even more aware and responsive to sub-coms than you are.

Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last? Here is Something Every Guy Must Know at All Costs

A nice guy is a nice guy and that is why they fail to score over the manipulative guy who's is just great at dancing around the girl till he gets what he wants and then shows his true colors...

They're too idealistic-

The nice guy is usually idealistic with the good manners. He's good and perfect and really a girl's guy that he eventually is treated only as a truly good friend who is there in the shadows to lend a shoulder to the crying girl as and when she needs him. He is the one who gets battered at the end of the day.

They're readily available-

The nice guy is readily available and makes no excuses to the girl when he's needed to lend her a handkerchief to blow into and so he loses respect in the girl's eyes as not being the 'hot guy' whom she'd rather chase. The good guy will never let the girl down no matter how busy his schedule.

They're quiet and gullible-

The nice guys always listen to all the raving and ranting a girl resorts to when frustrated with her boyfriend. You'll find them sitting with pathetic look in the eyes wondering just how they can help. They have little to say or suggest, and he bores her to death, but yes, he's a nice guy to have as a friend.

They're not smooth operators-

The nice guys lack the smooth mannerisms that girls get taken in by. They're far too well mannered, disciplined and polished for girls to be attracted to them. They're far too well behaved and prefer to just dream of the girl they'd like to have forever.

Well if you really want that girl out there avoid being a nice guy or you'll always be a loser.