Get Your Lover to Listen to You

As relationships continue both men and women seem to get caught in a rut. They have developed a way of communicating with their lover in a certain way and that's pretty much it. When problems or challenges to the relationship come up many people simply can't change gears mentally to allow them agree or even give in if needed. We are creatures of habit and dealing with a loved one can be set and inflexible at times.

Let's change the way we respond to our lover by learning a new methodology. It's called Conversational Hypnosis and it works. Just imagine allowing yourself to help your very best friend to agree with you. Not forceful, not underhanded but simply to help that special someone to come around to your way of thinking. Sure there are times when you need to give in and let go. Then there are times when its really important you get your way. Right? Of course!

It's done by changing the way you speak, how you use words and methods of hypnosis that are easy to master and use all the time. Wow! Your mate can now understand you better. If you have children, think about how wonderful to be able to give a command in a simple request and have him/her do what you asked. The best part is no back talk or hesitation.

I was eating at Burger King lately and Kim a pretty blue eyed blond girl sat down crying. She'd told me her daughter of 11 was tearing her relationship apart with her new man. Every time he came over, her daughter threw a fit. I explained how to use her voice and how to talk. Then we talked about how to make her daughter listen to her. Kim listened intently like a sponge soaking up water. I felt I had talked too much and gave her too much to try. I hoped it would work for her.

Three days later I ate at BK again and Kim cornered me. The broad smile and clear eyes told me she'd been a success. Her daughter was coming around nicely. We talked more and what a pleasure it was to see her so happy. I wish I could help more people all the time after such a rewarding experience.

The next time you are with someone and want to get them to listen more to you, try this simple experiment. When you want to say something important and especially if you want that someone to do something, here is what to try. As you are talking and just before you want to say the part of the sentence containing a command, pause ever so slightly, drop you verbal tone down just a tiny bit, say that word or phrase, pause ever so slightly again and then change you voice tone back to normal. Practice it in private a few times so it's easy for you to do. It's only a small part of conversational hypnosis but it is powerful all on it's own. Try it. I think you will be amazed.