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пятница, 10 октября 2008 г.

How to Create Attractive Profiles-Personals For Internet Dating

Alright singles, writing an good self description is crucial for attracting the types of relationships you want in your life. Here are some tricks of the writing trade that will help you to write a fun and attractive personal description.

1.Who are You?
Take 5 words that BEST describe you and use them in your description. (These 5 words will also describe what type of person you are subconsciously looking for and attracting.) EXAMPLES: Bold people attract boldness, Happy people attract happiness, Academic people attract academics, Adventurous people attract adventure, Etc.

2.Personality and Tone: Nothing is more boring to read than writing with no style or personality. When writing your description, write it as if you are actually talking face to face with someone. This will add tone to your writing, revealing your personality, and giving your description more substance and color:

Bad description: Energetic, fun, beach volleyball player seeks partner... (yawn)

Good description: Hi guys, I love spending time in the sun playing a good game of beach volleyball and if you think you've got the energy for a fun girl like me, send me a message ;)

Make sure that you can Feel the difference, when writing your self description. Make it feel conversational and people will find it easier to get into a conversation with you.

3.Things in Common: People are looking for singles who they have things in common with. Write about your hobbies, interests and other activities that you enjoy doing. It will help attract someone with a common lifestyle and it makes for excellent conversation starters:

You - "Loves to play tennis"

Them - "Hey did you see the US open final match!?"

BAM, it is on! Now that a commonality has been established you can start a small conversation around it.

Bottom Line
Write ALOT about who you are and what you want. Most people take online dating seriously because they are paying money and want to get a good result. If they stop to read your bio and you give them hardly any information describing who you are as a person, you are shooting yourself in the foot... and we will disown you. Take your time to do a good full bio.

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