How to Use Indirect Approaches to Pick Up Women!

Every woman has her dreams about the man in her life and what he should be like. And that man is the "prince charming" of her life. Even the fairy tales of yesteryear wove around the girl and her 'prince charming' and how he 'swept her off her feet'. This phrase, of course, is not to be taken in its literal sense.

But enough of the fairy tales. I am going to explain how you can become a guy who may become her "prince charming". But unless you approach and talk to women, you don't have a chance of meeting a woman that you may one day connect with.

So let me start with one technique that you can use to approach a woman. Indirect Approaching.

An Indirect approach is an approach that you are not stating your interest in her. You are commenting on something that is going on in the environment around you. Thus giving her no real reason to think that you are just another guy trying to pick her up.

It beats the old school approach to physically bump into a woman thereby dropping her belongings, and then helping her pick them up. In all probability the matter will end there without further ado and she will probably charge you with assault :). Avoid this very direct approach where the woman, rather than being enchanted by you, she would actually feel annoyed with you.

The examples I will give you where you can use the indirect approaching method to your advantage. You might come across a woman either at a party, or in a park or may be even in a shopping complex. You might even find her waiting in a queue. You could use an indirect approach in any of these situations.

If she is alone at a party you could make a comment like "Wow, that's a pretty big back you've got there are you running away from home or something?" Deliver that with a little sarcasm and she will laugh and relax,then you can start chatting to her. It beats saying wow cool bag doesn't it?

Another one you could use is just say your in a music store and you see a woman you are interested in, and she is holding a CD. You could comment on how great the band is and that you have that CD and it is fantastic. Again that is another great way to indirectly approach a woman. And this is a sure fire way to get a response from her, thus leading to a conversation.

A third way of working an indirect approach. Just say you were standing in a supermarket isle. You notice a woman you have an interest in. You could ask for her advice on a particular product, you might ask which sauce would be better with this pasta. You could ask about anything, just use what ever is in front of you. Something that is in your environment.

It is not rocket science if you are just relaxed and approach her with confidence you will deliver these approaches with great ease and women will gladly stop and chat with you.

If you can master the art of great indirect approaches with women it is a great way to then engage her and then eventually get her number, as it is a really effective way of approaching a woman without looking like a threat and you are using your environment to your advantage.