Should I Make Him Wait For Sex?

If you are looking for a short fling, I would say go for it, as long as you won't mind never seeing him again! But if you find yourself really liking this guy, have dreamed about the perfect wedding with him more than once, and have come up with the names of your three children with him, there is one thing you must do before anything else: Make Him Wait for Sex.

This is not just a recommendation. It is something that has proved to dramatically improve the chance of making relationships work. Let me show you the three reasons why this is the case:

* How do you know he's not a player?

It is unfortunately the case that many men are just not ready for a relationship and won't be ready for many, many years. Although they know this, they will never tell you straight up from the beginning. Making him wait for sex will allow you to test his true intentions. The fact is that when a man is just looking for a fling, he won't spend too much effort. If you make it a bit difficult, he will move on to an easier target. For you, this is a good thing!

* "Hmm, does she do this a lot?"

Another disadvantage of sleeping with a man too soon is that he can't help but wonder if you do this with all the guys you meet. This is not a suspicion that you want to plant in your man's head early on.

* Give time for emotional bonding

A man doesn't consider a woman his girlfriend until he has emotionally bonded with her. Emotional bonding only comes through spending a lot of time with each other ... outside of the bedroom. When you join him for a camping trip or watch his favorite sports team play with him, that is emotional bonding. When you sit and listen to the sad story of how he lost his cat at age 5, that is emotional bonding.

Give yourself and your guy some time to form an emotional bond and make it known to him that you are selective, and the relationship will be much more likely to work!