How to Ask Out a Girl - How I Asked Out 1 Girl in 3 Months, Shocking I Know!

The situation of how to ask out a girl comes to every male at some point in his lifetime. This is the first step towards meaningful relationships so it makes sense learning how to do it well and repeat that success.

More people are scared of public speaking than of death, how crazy is that and how can it apply to you asking a girl out?

Well put it this way, what you think about reality is not actually reality is it? Most people think dying is worse than speaking, totally irrational.

You have to understand that all those negative thoughts that you are having about asking out that special girl are just that - THOUGHTS!

They are just what you are thinking will happen, and our brains have been shown to mess up OVER and OVER again when it comes to things like this!

The only way that you can see if what you think is true is by putting it into action. Just taking LOTS and LOTS of action, this is what I believe holds 99% of people back in life. They die before they have even started, and it makes me upset.

So what do you need to get past this?

#1 Realise That You Are The Prize

Stop putting that girl in her pedestal and thinking about how far she is out of your league. Just go up, talk to her and be totally cool as if you are best buddies.

By not putting her on a pedestal, you can tease her like she is one of your friends or your bratty little sister and she will wonder to herself

Why is this guy not hitting on me like all the others guys?.

To get her in that situation is priceless.

You also are not as let down when you come across obstacles as you know she was not the girl that you used to put on a pedestal.

Girls dig guys who have there own values and don't submit themselves to a womans wishes all the time. By doing this you will attract higher quality women into your life.

#2 A Good Program

If you are going to be taking lots of action soon, what you really do need is a decent program. You need a set of techniques and tips that you can try and use and see which ones stick for you and which ones don't.

Writing this article kind of makes me laugh because I remember being in your situation, and looking for the magic bullet that would solve all my problems.

Well the news is, there isn't one. But there is some amazing programs out there that can make you advance pretty darn quick!

Do yourself a favour and don't be the social reject that I used to be, when fear paralyzed me so much that I once got so worked up to ask out a girl and it took me 3 months!