It has always been a problem for men on how to approach the woman of their dreams. You read, research and study all the materials you can get your hands just to be able to learn the secrets in approaching women successfully.
The truth is you don't need any reading materials to become successful. You just have to discover it in yourself because all you need is in you.
Thus, before being able to approach women and understand them, you must, first and foremost, understand yourself first. As the Greek saying goes, "Know thyself." You can never get to know others if you don't yourself.
If you know yourself - your beliefs, ideas, even the deepest desires of your heart - eventually you'll be sure of yourself. And because you are sure of yourself, you gain confidence and women love men who exude self-confidence.
Also, in the process of getting to know yourself, you'll get to know where you're good at. If you know where you're good at, you can use this strength to get your lady love's attention.
Another thing is that, most of the time, in order to get the attention of women, men have this tendency to research the what the particular woman likes in men and would pretend to be exuding these characteristics.
It may be effective but it may backfire if your lady love discovers that you do not really have any of the characteristics you pretended to have in the first place. Thus, it pays that you be yourself. If you are able to discover yourself, this will be easy to do. Women do not like it when men pretend something that they are not.
Men also have a tendency to follow tips to the word. The truth is tips are just tips. They are just advises of some people who seem to have success with these advices.
But the same advices may not work on you because you may not have the same situation and same characteristics. You are the only who can really know what to do because you are the only one who knows the situation.
The bottom of this all is that men should be just themselves to become successful in getting the attention of their lady love. Know yourself and learn where you're really good at. Do not pretend to be someone you are not. Everything is really up to you.
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