Does Your Ex Want to Get Back With You? How to Find Out

You may have noticed your ex has been showing more interest in spending time with you. They may be flirting with you more or could be showing interest in going out with you. This could get you asking yourself whether or not your ex wants to get back with you. It is all well and good to ask this question and to be optimistic about getting back with them. However it is important that you don't show too much interest too quickly.

Your ex wanting to get back with you can be quite common. There are some tell tale signs that this is the case. These signs are usually clear as day, however even if you are sure they want to get back it is important that things aren't rushed. What is the best way of going about this?

It's time to play hard to get with your ex. This however should not be taken to the extreme. If you want to start things up again you should only play 'hard to get' a little bit. It was most likely you showing little interest in them that caused them to show any interest in you in the first place. Remember, showing too much interest in getting back or playing too much 'hard to get' will push them away again.

Usually after a break up you will find that you miss your ex. Now this will occur whether or not it was you who broke up with them or your ex that broke up with you. Quite often it will be the case that your ex has similar feelings about missing you. This is most likely inevitable as you both would have spent a lot of quality time together resulting in some very nice memories. This is especially the case if you guys have been spending any considerable amount of time together.

There are times when an ex will see that you still have feelings for them and will pretend that they are also interested. This is a cruel little game played in order to get your attention for whatever reason. They may just be doing this because there is currently nothing or nobody else to keep their attention and to give them attention. And yes, this there may be some sinister intentions when doing this. Perhaps it is their way of 'settling the score' for some wrong they may have perceived to have been done to them while in the relationship. This is all the more reason to not be too keen and jump into these sort of situations. Know where you stand before proceeding forward.

This sort of situation is played out all the time. An ex wanting to get back often has good intentions, however often their actions can have a hidden agenda. That's why it is so important to get as much knowledge of the situation before showing too much interest. Again, playing hard to get is often the best strategy if used in moderation.