Flirting Tips

When guys want to flirt with women, they usually do the entirely wrong things. But they can hardly be faulted. After all, who has taken the trouble to teach them? What you do want to avoid is the misguided notion that women are attracted to big strapping guys who cut down trees and kill small animals.

But did you know that certain androgynous characteristics help a person become close to attractive women? And what is the number one thing you can do in terms of flirting which so-called masculine men rarely do? Touch. You need to learn the art of touching. Now for the extremely masculine man, touching means hot-and-heavy kissing, sexual touching, and trying to get her straight into bed. What guys like this find difficult is reaching a middle ground between ordinary touching (shaking hands, etc.) and highly sexual touching. This is where we reach the androgynous zones. You need to learn to know how to give a woman a light touch on the arm, a touch to the hair, a hand squeeze.

One of the best flirting tips is knowing what to avoid. You do want to avoid touching sexual zones--breasts, pubic regions, and butt-at this stage of the process. These are off limits for now. Not only are they not "flirting" but they will kill your game.

Other flirting tips you should be aware of: if she mentions a current or ex boyfriend or husband, you should never denigrate him no matter what she says about him. The very minute you start jumping into the game and sending negative comments in his direction, she will start to defend him.

Be aware that you need to get your target woman in an emotional state. No, we don't mean you need to make her cry. What we mean is that everything you say and do needs to be directed in an emotional direction. Seduction and attraction are emotional; therefore everything leading up to it has to be in the same emotional vein.

For example, you never want to talk about ordinary impersonal things like cars, weather, politics, etc. The problem is not that they are dull and boring (even though they are) but that they do not involve emotions. Even if the emotions that you evoke from her are negative, this is still far better than any kind of conversation that does not involve emotions