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четверг, 2 апреля 2009 г.

Relationship Problem Advice - Dating Mistakes to Avoid

I bet that you search for that special person or someone who means a world for your and soul mate everywhere and you never was sure was is the right person. There is a chance that you are doing things right, but also, there is a possibility that you are doing a lot in a wrong way. Thing that probably can guarantee failure or unsuccessful love story, which will lead to a broken heart.

Today aggressiveness, perfection, hard working and some lies are all factors of the success and ways to achieve your goals.

However, the same qualities which were mentioned above can have negative consequences when you are looking for somebody on online dating websites and even when you are off line.

There is a huge difference between being self confident and aggressive, and too self confident and too aggressive, or just slimy or plain sleazy from a women frame of reference. If you will reduce the distance between both of you, you will across overdoing things, which is not always necessary to achieve your goals. It can even lead you that you will loose your self confidence when you will see that woman does not allow you that close.

Try to concentrate on the outcome not on the business deal you are going to close at the moment. Try to maintain your relationship progressing slowly but continuously. Remember: Rome was not built in one day.

You will never find a perfect person, you are looking for, because there is a simple reason: we are all flawed in some way or another... You also are a part of that group. If you expect somebody to be exactly what you are looking for and demand that, you will be never satisfied, indeed disappointed. Struggling perfectionism in your acts and work is one thing but trying to demand it from others is absolutely another thing.

Demanding perfectionism from a fellow, business partner or a woman you are interested in isn't just fine. It will not happen. Expect that somebody is not perfect and just try to overcome them. Decide the ones you can deal with and one you can not.

Little tiny lies and false fronts will not work. Be honest from the early beginning of your relationship. Write your profile ads based on your experience. Make it interesting but do not make false or any unreal statements.

The truth will come out anyway and you will be on the fool place. If you say you are a lawyer who generates a million dollars a year and recently you are a waiter that makes 75K, you have set yourself up for a failure.

Remember, do not be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.

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