How to Be Irresistible to a Guy? Testing the 7 Tips in Practice

On a Saturday night I decided to put the tips from a book written by Dr. Grant to a practical test. He points out seven powerful tips how to be irresistible to men.

The seven hot tips to concentrate are:

1. Smile - the one of the top things that men find sexy!


2. Approachability - be approachable but not appear to be easy!


3. Voice - speak slowly and softly!


4. Long hair beats short! And lips outrank breasts, legs and the caboose!


5. Femininity - save your masculine side for the board room!


6. Laughter - a laughing woman is often irresistible to a man!


7. Ability to be at ease - the ability to act comfortable with a man is irresistible!

Ok. Not that bad. I have actually never had problems on finding a guy in a nightclub. But with the men I have ended up with - it has never lasted too long. This time I had decided that I will take no-one with me. The plan was just to see if it was possible to get the man I spot the first - I wouldn't care about anyone else...

So when making-up I concentrated on lips and left my long hair loose. Otherwise I think I looked pretty conservative (and I am not any model shaped movie star etc). Then I just tried to be as natural as possible and smile and laugh a lot - I was just going to be happy and having fun, that's all. After that most of the 7 things were already covered!

The guy I spotted first was then standing on the door to get in so he was my goal. I thought many ways how to show him that I would love to talk to him. But I just didn't know if it was going to be totally mess then. So I decided to go to him later "accidentally" and say him something one could say to anyone. Some time later I saw him going to the bar to get something to drink. I decided that as well and went after him. At the desk I innocently asked him what cocktail I should get. He recommended "Jaded Lady"... Then it was easy to start small talk about cocktails. I left him there because I didn't want to be easy. And if it had worked he would come to talk me later again.

Later during the night I didn't go to talk to him. I just made sure that we had eye-contact once a while - and I had a possibility to give him a very hearty smile. It was much easier than I expected. Some time later he came to ask me to dance! And we had couple of nice hours chatting... I had decided to go to bed alone so some time later I told him that I am getting tired and I am leaving. He came to escort me to the taxi and gave me his business card. He never asked to come with me and never asked my number or anything...

I am sure this man would have made a better husband than my ex ones. But he was also a little older, about his 40s... And for some reason (I have no idea why) didn't feel all my type of a man... I have been thinking that I will not call him - this was just an experiment, right?