How to Gain Power in Your Relationship With Your Man

Does it bother you that your man holds all the power in the relationship? Do you feel that you're trying too hard, while he's not trying enough? Do you feel frustrated that he can make you do whatever he wants, while you have no control over what he does? Read on to discover how to shift the power dynamic in your relationship and start gaining control ...

From my coaching experiences with women, I've notice that some women give up their fair share of control in a relationship too easily. These women try to please the guy by letting him get whatever he wants and sacrificing what they want. They think that if the guy gets what he wants, he must be happy and satisfied with them.

This can't be further from the truth. This is what happens when a guy feels like he can do whatever he wants when he wants it.

First, he'll start to make more demands and when they are not met, get annoyed.

Second, he'll start to appreciate you less for your sacrifices, since he has developed a habit to expect you to do what he wants.

Third, he'll feel restless, bored, and may even want to get out, a common symptom when someone gets something too easily.

To make your relationship with the guy more interesting, exciting, and last longer, there's one thing you have to do right now: shift the power dynamic in your relationship. This means,

You want to get your equal share of what makes you happy, rather than focusing on what makes him happy all the time.

You want to start saying NO to unreasonable requests from him.

And finally, you want to consistently do this, so your man will know that his days as the Last Emperor have ended and it's time to behave like a reasonable and mature man ...