Emotional Attraction - How to Get Her Attracted

Emotional attraction is a great way to ensure your dating success. This skill will let you hang back while you have interested women approaching you (instead of having to chase after them).

The best way to get her really attracted is by getting emotional attraction. That is the type of attraction that is not superficial, and REALLY affects her. There are two ways of doing this: letting her feel a complete range of emotions when she's with you, or becoming an alpha male.

Men are more logical, and women are more emotional. This is one of the reasons why making her feel a range of different feelings will get her really interested in you. Have you ever seen a relationship where the guy mistreats his girlfriend, but she's madly in love with him anyway? He's giving her a full range of emotions that is making her emotional attraction REALLY high. Obviously I'm not encouraging you to mistreat your girlfriend, but make sure that she has a ton of different feelings when she's with you.

This method is absolutely crucial for more long term relationships, or marriage. Once she's not feeling a range of emotions, her attraction for you will slowly start to dwindle. A typical example would be the couple that has lived together for 10+ years. If she's not interested in him on an emotional level, their relationship is in for some tough times.

Establishing emotional attraction is all about letting the girl feel joy, sadness, ecstasy, happiness, and excitement. It is the best way to keep her emotionally invested in you. When you keep her emotionally invested, she will want to spend time with you. Remember that if she's not getting a wide range of emotions from you, she'll try to get them by seeing somebody else.

A great way to increase the emotional attraction in any relationship is to be spontaneous. Take her on a surprise date, get her cute little gifts, do something huge for your one year anniversary. However, don't fall into the trap of seeking validation from her, or giving her all the attention.

A second great way of getting her emotionally attracted is by becoming an alpha male. Alpha males are traditionally the leaders of the group. They are confident, and never seek validation from women. These qualities make them irresistible. In fact, if you are an alpha male, you will naturally give her a range of emotions that will keep her attracted.

John Alexander wrote a great book called on Becoming an Alpha Male. Becoming an alpha male is something you should look into in order to get long term success with women.

There you have it! Get her invested in you on an emotional level, and you will succeed at getting her interested. Give her a full range of emotions, and you will get her emotional attraction to a point where she will LOVE to spend time with you.