How to Avoid the Most Common Mistake Women Make When Dating a Man

Your friends tell you that you are a dreamer. You want to attract Mr. Right, your soul mate, the man of your dreams but keep on getting disappointed over and over again in relationships that are mediocre. You start to think, "well, maybe it is just time to settle down with the first best guy that comes around."

This is the biggest mistake you could ever make! Why settle for second best when you can have what your heart truly desires? Mr. Right! Yes, there is a perfect guy out there for you. You just have to believe in this fact!

This is what happens. You realize your relationships all have the same pattern. Everything starts out great but then something happens, you get into a fight but you eventually forgive him thinking, "it's OK. He will change." Your girlfriends say these exact words back to you so you start to believe it. But you know deep inside you are setting yourself up for failure. The relationship starts over only to end up exactly where it left off the last time. Your mom and your girlfriends all support you and offer a loving shoulder to cry on when the predictable bad cycle started again.

You might not realize it right now, but odds are that if you've had a run of "failed" relationships then you too have been guilty of both choosing the WRONG MAN and trying to fix a situation that could never be salvage in the first place.

Men don't change! Don't expect them to! Of course, he might decide he wants to grow and change FOR HIMSELF.

He will never grow and change FOR YOU! It usually takes a strong teacher or mentor for a man to be open to feedback and change.

I know what you are thinking! The little voice inside you is saying, "I will become his teacher!"

No! You will not. Your role in this relationship is to be the women he wants to love and cherish forever. He does not want you to be his teacher. He does not want you to be his mother telling him what to do or how to do it!

The moral of this story is don't try to fix someone you don't admire fully for who he is! If something is wrong from the beginning, get out QUICK! The longer you stay in the relationship, the more hurtful it will be to get out.

Wouldn't you rather find yourself in the arms of Mr. Right rather than crying on the shoulder of your girlfriend after a break up? Risk it. Go out there and look for YOUR Mr. Right.

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