How to Escape the Friend Zone With a Girl

The "Just Friends Zone" is a well-known category amongst men. In truth, once you are in the friend-zone you might as well be a girl. The story above is basically the story of nice guys everywhere. The friendship zone is one of the worst possible places you can be emotionally, but if you are there, the only person at fault is you.

It's your fault that she simply sees you as a good friend, and only a good friend - ever! If you're interested in something more than a very casual friendship, it's your responsibility to tell her how you feel right from the start. If you don't, then you risk becoming another girlfriend, who is there for her emotionally. If she is only interested in you as a friend, you're responsible for stopping it. As long as you let yourself buy into her frame, you have no one to blame but yourself. Thus, the sooner you realize she's absolutely not interested in being anything more than "just friends", the better for you.

Once you meet a woman, she will put you in two categories - The "friend" or the "Boyfriend". The manner in which you act will either reinforce this idea in her mind or completely change it. The secret to escaping the "Friends Zone" right from the start is to use touch. You must break the touch barrier with her. The difference between her friend and her lover is that her lover touches her. It's that simple. You must encourage more physical flirting.

If you are shaking hands after introductions, hold her hand for a little longer than usual, while maintaining steady eye contact. While you are chatting to her, casually brush off her arm, until you build up a level of intimacy between you. Touching a women this way will amplify sexual tension between both of you. She will think:

"He wants to be more than just friends...Do I want to continue this conversation and see where it goes or end it right now"

Either way you win because you now know where you stand. By your actions, she realises that you are uninterested in being "Just Friends" and this will cause her to rethink your friendship and open up the possibility of something else. Sooner or later, she now realises that you are going to make a move.