Why Nice Guys Lose in Dating and Relationships

It's no secret that it can seem like a nice guy is always destined to get run over and trampled with women when it comes to dating and relationships. These are the guys that end up holding her purse while she spends his money in the mall and secretly flirts with other guys. And these are the guys that will shell out their hard earned money on a woman, hoping that she will fall for him if he does all of the things a man is "supposed" to do.

Well guess what?

Keep playing that role and you are destined to lose with women. See most "nice" guys are really doing things that make them seem like a doormat for women and nothing else. Playing this role is NOT going to make you a success with women because in the end, you have done nothing to trigger her attraction.

News flash for ya, women are not attracted to men they can walk all over!

You have to understand that in a sense, thinking that spending money on a woman will make her attracted to you, is pretty much saying that you can buy a woman's affection. And with the exception of a few women out there, this is not the case. A woman has to feel a certain something when she is around you. And your wallet is not going to do that.

What WILL make her feel attracted to YOU?

Being able to make her feel like she is having the time of her life, that she is caught up in a moment of passion and making her feel as though YOU are the man that will keep her on her toes is what will make her attracted to YOU. Unfortunately, most men are not very good at doing this.