You Can Talk to Any Guy - Just Try These Tips

Do you wish you could talk to that cute guy the same way you just up and talk to anyone else? Does your mind suddenly go blank when you see that cute guy come your way? Do you run and hide when you spot him, or do you just stand there feeling like an idiot? Sudden speechlessness is not uncommon, in fact many men and women fluster in the face of someone they find attractive. But you can get past this and find yourself in a fun and interesting conversation with the guy you want. This article can show you how.

Talk to him as though you already know him. If you can approach him as you would a long time friend, not only will you create a calm and easy atmosphere, but you'll set him at ease with your casual approach. If he's initially confused by your familiarity, he probably won't admit he doesn't know you and will play along. You'll attract the same response from him as you're putting out, so if you're fun to talk to, he'll get on board and have fun with you.

Ask a few simple questions as you would a colleague like, "How have you been?" As he opens up and shows he's receptive to your questions, move on to topics that might interest him. Ask him what's been keeping him busy lately. Show your interest in what he has to say with your questions, you smile and your attentive eyes. Then let him take the reigns and bring the conversation where he'd like. Encourage him to tell him more about himself. And if he asks you questions about you, answer them with brief, succinct responses if you still feel uncomfortable about opening up.

As times goes on, you'll relax and feel more comfortable talking to guys. And the more comfortable you feel, the more at ease he'll feel with you.