How to Get Over a Guy - The Steps For Moving On

Do you have some difficulties with getting over a guy, who was once your lover, part of a close relationship, and you finally broke up? That is mostly difficult, because maybe that space from your heart may never be refilled with anything or anyone else. Still, most of people can get over a relationship. I will share five steps to help you getting over a guy you still like or care for.

First of all, don't keep your pain inside. Let it out! It is good to cry in such cases, or keeping a journal is also helpful. Journals are only pieces of paper, right? Yes, but that way, you'll write down everything, you'll be sincere, and have that feeling like you've told someone about all of your concerns.

Now, another interesting method to share with you. I often see others in this situation. What they do? They write a long letter to their ex boyfriend. Everything, like good and bad times, fun days, boring days ... all of what there was. Those people even write about how this guy hurt them, and let everything out. You'll be surprised to hear, that after finishing it, these letters are burned. Watching flames, as they consume that paper ... that is how you will get a closure of the situation.

You should know whether this relationship is or isn't over. Do you hope that your guy will be different one day, and come back to you? If you do, you won't ever get over that guy.

Actions can be taken to prove yourself that everything related to this relationship has ended. You should change all of your personal property that your partner gave you. You shouldn't use those t-shirts he gave you to sleep in, and nothing else. In the case of some minor objects, like toothbrushes, you can throw those away. This is an excellent way to really clear him from your life.

Spend more time with your true friends. You have no husband yet, relationships will come and go. However, friends are stable and are there to help you. If your relationship was hot and heavy, you may have made a mistake of ignoring your girlfriends. Your girlfriends will surely help you, and meeting them again, keeping in touch again will improve your social life.

Maybe some of them had similar situations to go trough. If so, they will tell you how they got to get over a guy, and they will be your live examples of succeeding and achieving your goal. Since your relationship ended, you have more free time. All the new time you gained can be used to get over your ex. For example, try to go to gym, or taking a new hobby.

Another excellent idea would be to join a group or class. This way, you won't have too much free time to think about all the bad things running trough your head, and you will have the possibility to meet new friends.

Last but not least, the best solution to get over your ex guy is moving on. As you are now between old and new friends (from the class or other activities), and your time is filled up, letting you to become a new person.