What to Do If He's Not Calling You - Dating Advice For Women

Men aren't always easy to figure out. Many women find themselves in exactly the same situation within a relationship. They go out on a date or two and they wait patiently by the phone for the man they desire to call them back. It's really difficult to know what to do when this happens. When it comes to the rules of what to do if he's not calling, it's not as complicated as you may think.

In most cases, after we've had a great evening with a man we're hoping to reconnect with him sooner rather than later. If he said he'd call and then days pass without a word it becomes very discouraging. It's incredibly easy to start questioning if the spark you thought was there was really just a figment of your imagination. Before you jump to any conclusions, including thinking he's dumped you, it's important to realize that men don't view telephone calls the same way we do. Even if a man is incredibly interested in a woman it may take him days or even weeks to call back.

The best thing you can do if he's not calling you is to wait at least a week and then call him. If he picks up, make small talk and chances are he'll ask you out again. He'll likely say that he's been busy and meant to call. Take him at his word. If he doesn't pick up when you call, leave a brief message. In the message don't ask where he's been or why he hasn't called. Just say that you wanted to touch base and leave him your number. Don't call back after you've done this. The ball is in his court now and if he's into you, he'll call.