When is the Right Time to Romance Him?

When is time for you to romance him, this main man in your life? First lesson is to let him romance you first. Men love the hunt and chase which they have been doing for centuries. Regardless of changing times, and current acceptance of women calling men, they still like to be in control.

Being too available can often be the kiss of death in a relationship. After the initial pursuit and several dates, it is okay to start showering some romance. It is important that you feel comfortable with his feelings towards you. Coming on too strong is one way to end this relationship.

It is okay to romance him when the time is right. You will have this gut feeling when you should start moving forward. Perhaps it is old fashioned to let the man do the romancing in the beginning. This time gives you a chance to sort your feelings, and let him know how you appreciate what he is doing.

Why not invite him to dinner, and cook his favorite foods. Hopefully you know what they are by now. Candles are good and of course some romantic music. Look beautiful but not too obvious. Be really subtle by not overdoing it, and remember not to rush the relationship.

When you have found someone you really care about what fun it is to romance him. By letting him romance you first you can be assured of his interest in you for an ongoing relationship. The romancing you add to the relationship could influence what happens between you two.