What Dating Experts and Coaches Won't Tell You

Let's say you see a woman while you are out for some happy hour drinks after work. You know the type. She might be a newly hired marketing girl with high heels, a short skirt, and librarian glasses. Or might be a sexy bartenderess in a tight t-shirt and jeans with a lower back tattoo showing as she bends over to grab your next round of beer.

Either case, when a woman sees you, she has decided on the spot into one of following categories:

1. Winner: She thinks, "Ooh, he is so cool!" She wants you! And unless you do something really dumb to screw it up, it's a sure thing.
2. Possible: She thinks, "Hmm, not bad." But the jury is still out on you.
3. Loser: She thinks, "I hope he doesn't try to hit on me." You have to be pretty swift to turn this one around.
4. F.U.C.: (Funny Undesirable Creep): She thinks, "Yuuuuch!" This is where the description, "Creepy" gets used. Give up.

All this happens within in a very short time, like less than 30 seconds!!! Oh, sure there are some migrations among the categories but that take a lot of time and resources, both are in short supply these days.

For an example, let's say out of ten girls we talk to today (you are talking to girls everywhere, right?), 1 or 2 will put us in "Winner" category, and 1 or 2 will put us in "F. U. C." category. Well, then 6 to 8 of them will put us in "Possible/Loser" categories.

Hmmm, so what do we have to do to increase our chances with opposite sex?

WE HAVE TO TALK TO MORE OF THEM!

Yes, it's a numbers game. Pretty obvious right? So how many women did you talk to last time you were out? One, maybe two. What if I can get you to talk to twenty women in just two hours? Not only that, they will be happy to talk to you. Sounds crazy, doesn't it? That's why speed dating is so much more effective than conventional method of going out to a typical pick-up spots.