Can't Flirt With Guys? Five Amazing Tips to Get You Started

Are you shy and can't flirt confidently with a man? Are you aware of how you act and speak differently when you're around a guy you fancy? Are you wondering how to express and demonstrate your interest with non verbal clues and signals? Maybe there's a new guy in the office getting you hot under the collar or perhaps a handsome stranger on a train giving you those tell tail butterflies. Flirting is an ancient and powerful art that all women should master- So what are you waiting for? These five tips will help you break the ice...

1. Smile.

You can't lose with a smile. Who doesn't want to catch a smile cast in their direction once in a while? You're not over stepping the mark, coyly registering interest and probably making someone's day in the process! Smiling allows you to open up and say yes, I would like to you to smile back and start a conversation with me. Smiling is warm and friendly and shows you in your best light.

2. Eye contact.

We're not talking about a sinister stare here ladies, but eye contact is a great way of flirting with a guy. Try catching his eye and seeing if you can hold his gaze. It's also a great gauge of a guy's confidence. A more experienced, confident man is more likely to hold your gaze, while a shy guy who is unsure of himself will look away quickly. Combine this technique with your radiant smile from tip one and you're well on your way to expert flirting.

3. Talk.

This is a great tip if you are in a public place where it is pretty noisy, like a bar for example. Rather than try to make yourself heard over the general racket by raising your voice (which may also make him picture you as a nagging wife!), keep your voice pitched soft. This leaves him no choice but to lean in closer to listen to what you are saying.

4. Touch.

Can't flirt? Pah! Look at you now. Ready to move onto stage four. And it's time to get a little closer. Find an excuse to gently touch him. Maybe brush his arm lightly while you are talking as if reinforce a point you are making. Perhaps gently touch his shoulder as if you need a little support if you need to get out of your seat or are sitting down again.

5. Enjoy yourself.

Keeping these tips in mind should help flirting come more easily to you. Don't get too worked up about having to stick to the rules or follow a magic formula. Concentrate on the guy, be natural and have a great time flirting with cute guys that you meet. Soon you won't remember that shy creature who thought I can't flirt with guys!