How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back? Some Helpful Advice Would Be Nice

When a boyfriend turns into an ex boyfriend, it's never a good thing. The only good thing is that there is a chance that you will be able to get him back, but it is going to take some work. Even if you feel like you have ruined your chances and made a total spectacle out of yourself, it's never too late.

The only thing you can do at this point, (assuming that you have messed up a little) is forget about your feelings. It's time to think with your head and not your heart. Your heart will always get you in trouble when dealing with an ex boyfriend. The more you try to force the issue of getting back together, the more he is going to resist. Instead of feeling the sadness, anger, resentment, and confusion, take time to become more analytical of the situation at hand.

You have to think about everything that happened in your relationship that contributed toward your breakup. Do not put the blame on him and him only. You have to accept the fact that the breakup is partially your fault. If he cheated on you or broke up with you for someone else, think about what you could have done to keep him. You must think about the things that you both did wrong in the relationship. Doing this will help you to see the "why" of it all.

It goes without saying that you should refrain from any further contact with your ex boyfriend, at least for now. You must realize that there is nothing else you can do at this point to make him want you back. Not talking to him is the only way to get him back. What you should focus on is getting his attention. Nagging and calling him constantly will cause him to become annoyed with you and want you out of his life for good. You have to understand that you guys are on different sides of the fence now. You have lost your connection and the only way to get him back is to reestablish what you had.

All wounds need time to heal. Right now, you need to take time to heal and to get yourself back together. It's very understandable that the breakup between you and your ex boyfriend has torn you apart mentally and emotionally. Even though you are sad, you have to do what makes you happy. Sit down and think about those things in life that made you happy before he came along, and then simply pick up where you left off. You will be surprised at how much better you are going to feel.

Your next step will be to let things happen without force. Trust in the fact that your ex boyfriend will come back around. You may even want to consider going to his favorite hang-out spot and letting him see you when you are genuinely happy. Do not attempt to go around him while you are still sad. Keep in mind that this whole healing process is going to take some time. Before you know it, he will be sending you emails and calling to see how you are doing. Until then, just play it cool.