Matchmaking and Dating Tips For Women - You're in the Relationship Now

Heavy Discussions

Discuss important topics such as careers, children, and money only when you both feel calm, happy, and ready. Start to learn everything about his emotional baggage as well as his ambitions and dreams when starting to get serious. Better to get everything out in the open before marriage.

Relationship Priority

Don't allow your complicated professional life and other responsibilities to elbow your relationship into a corner. I'm not saying to quit your job, but make sure you make time for the important aspects of your relationship. Neglecting a relationship is like neglecting a plant: It will eventually die.

Be Real

A love relationship should be the safest place to be "you." You are unique and distinct form everyone else out there. Don't try and be someone you're not because you think it'll please a man. If he likes you, it's because of the individual qualities you possess.

Kissing Lessons

Don't love the way he kisses? Give him lessons! Tell him your lips would like to show his tongue some new moves (this will excite him-it will not hurt his feelings!). And don't forget to practice, practice, and practice!

Be Creative

The best way to learn about how you are with each other is to engage in a variety of activities together. Suggest and plan things that require different ways of thinking, problem solving, and physical interaction. You'll get to know each other in deeper ways and have fun at the same time!

Party Time

A dinner party is a great way to show him you can entertain. It's also a wonderful way to introduce him to your friends, your sense of style, your knowledge of food, and how you manage a social event. Most men like to see how you handle yourself in such situations especially businessmen who will need your help entertaining business parties at home. If you're worried about your cooking skills, have the main course catered.

Understand Him

If you're going to date a man, know what makes him happy. It's not necessary you understand it when he wants to spend Sunday afternoon watching the game with his friends. You may also develop a fondness for the things he likes and you can share them with him-how great is that?

Magical Moments

Here are some magical moments you can plan that will surely sweep him off his feet:

- Hot air ballooning
- A ride on a ferry or riverboat
- Tango lessons
- Rent a luxury sports car and take a ride in the country
- Attend a high-end or celebrity auction
- Fly-fishing
- Miniature golf
- Bowling
- Horseback riding lessons in the park or at a local horse farm
- An outdoor summer music festival or concert
- Tour a winery