Dating and Relationship Help

No relationship is perfect, but not have a relationship can be tough for most people. After all, being in a relationship is all about finding the right partner and maintaining a balance. If you've looking to find a new relationship it can be hard if you're not the outgoing type of personality, but you do have to get yourself out there.

Relationship dating is about finding the right partner that you share things in common with, and want to share time with. The unfortunate part about most dating couples is that they often believe the other person in the relationship will think the same way as they do. The truth is, men and women have very different ways of communicating those things they need or want.

Women need to know that most men place value on actions rather than words. This means a woman who constantly tries to get her partner to address possible problems in a relationship by talking or arguing about an issue is almost certain to see an increase in those negative patterns.

Men respond more positively to your actions. They want to know that they are capable of making their date happy. A man who is constantly faced with an upset date will begin to think there's nothing he can do to make her happy, so he'll withdraw even further from you, even to the point of breaking up.

However, if a man is faced with a happy, confident partner who is a pleasure to spend time with, he's less likely to withdraw. In fact, he'll likely draw even closer because he enjoys being around that person. Men in this situation will often find themselves doing whatever they can to make sure their date stays happy.

Men need to remember that women value slightly different emotional triggers than they do. Women want to know that the man they love places enough value on her to really listen to what she's saying. If you feel your date is pulling away from you, then sit down and just listen.

These primary differences in relationship between men and women are simple things you can do to help strengthen your existing relationship.