Is She the One For You? How to Know If She is the Woman of Your Dreams!

Most guys reach a stage in life when the thrill of 'living the fast life' starts to ware off and they begin to crave more stable relationships. For men at that stage of life, it is definitely not the time for trial and error...

So how can you tell if a woman is right for you?

Let me start by stating that there are no universal rules that differentiate the wrong woman from right. What's good for one person may be totally destructive to another. That is why you have to be able to determine what is good for you.

Firstly you need to have an image of your ideal woman in your mind, now you would to picture beyond the hot body, and 'Angelie Jolie lips' to get a true picture. Now from this image, write down the attributes your woman MUST have. Must she be supportive, homely, outgoing, funny, reserved, good looking, ambitious, chubby? This section of your list should have attributes you simply can't do without in a lady, make sure the list is as exhaustive as possible.

Are you done? Okay let's go on...

Now take a second look at your list. You would find that some attributes in that list are more important to you than others. In fact there are probably some attributes that you can forgo if you have the others in place. For example, you may be willing to forgo the blonde hair, if you can get a level of integrity that impresses you. So that makes blonde hair your 'maybe'. Now move all the attributes that you feel you can compromise on to another list - your 'maybe' list. That's a list of attributes you'd like your lady to have but that you can do without and still remain happy and satisfied.

Now your job just got easier -

How do you know the woman of your dreams? You now have a list. Just find the woman that has most or all the attributes on your 'must have' list and a sizable number of the attributes on your 'maybe' list, and you are guaranteed to have found the woman of your dreams.