Do You Often Struggle to Attract Or Keep Women? Here Are the Reasons Why You Must Be Failing

It's that time of year again...the time when you do that one really dumb mistake and ruin absolutely everything. She walks away and you feel totally burnt as you have also spent all of your time on this one mistake, and it didn't work. You want to get the girl, but trust me, you won't get any girls if you keep on doing this mistake. Read on to find out the one mistake that will ruin your dating life...

Convincing her to like her- This is a huge mistake, and trust me, women don't need to be convinced. In fact, what most men end up doing when they meet a girl they really like, is they try extremely hard to convince her to have feelings for them. This is especially true for guys who have female friends that they want to start dating, or men who encounter a girl who is "just not interested".

Getting desperate- All this does is show her exactly how desperate you are, and this is absolutely unattractive to women. It's not flattering to have a guy freak out over her decision, and it shows her that you have absolutely no self respect. In fact, the sad thing is, is that you cannot actually change how a woman feels for you, in relation to attraction.

Attraction is not a choice- You should understand by now, that attraction is not a choice, it's just something one simply feels. You can see a beautiful lady and think "man, she's attractive", but did you choose to feel that way? NO! It just happened. Another thing a lot of men try and do is simply argue her logic on it. You may think you are a great catch, but trust me, if you couldn't convince her to feel attracted to you, you most certainly won't be able to win her over based on the reasoning and logic behind why you think she should have feelings for you.

You didn't- In the end, if she doesn't feel attracted towards you, it most likely means that either your approach or method failed. If you already have to try and beg her to convince her to like you, then it's likely that your approach wasn't too far off in the "wrong" direction to go with women in the first place. Remember that women can smell what you want from a mile away, and if she feels as if she has you all figured out, she sure won't feel too attracted towards you, because there is nothing left for her to know or conquer.