Matchmaking and Dating Tips For Women - Upscale Ways to Meet Him

Upscale Vacation

There are some drawbacks to meeting a man during a vacation. You are living a fantasy life and this may alter your perspective on things. You are also more prone to having an affair. When you return home, you might feel more open to talking to new people and networking with others. A vacation is a great way to meet a man. Resorts are designed for singles along with Club Med style resorts offer great singles vacations. Go to warm climate resorts where they attract a wide range of singles resorts. Big cities are another way to meet tons of men. If you are thinking of moving, visiting that city is a great way to find out if you like the area. Go to sophisticated museums, restaurants, clubs and shopping. You want to widen the places you can start conversations with men.

Meet Him Here

Car and boat shows are great places to meet single men. They love their toys. The larger the city, the bigger the event.

Charity Work

Attending expensive upscale charities can be an expensive but phenomenal way to meet men. If you want to lower the cost, be a volunteer and join the committee. You work in exchange working behind the scenes that will allow you to meet new people and new men. Men attend these benefits because their companies support the charity and they are networking. It's a terrific way to meet great men. Everyone is there for the same reasons, and you have something in common with everyone. Walk up and introduce yourself to several men.

Meet Your Husband

Here are a few places that some of my women have met their husbands. Doctors waiting room, elevators, gyms, apartment buildings, coffee shops, dry cleaners, newsstand, hailing a cab.

Join a Club

Join first a country club, especially for those of you who live in the suburbs. Look for clubs that attract single people like you. Golf courses and tennis clubs are the two best. You can learn and practice your sport and activity while mingling with others who share the same. It's a great way to meet men. If you went to an Ivy League school, join your school's association as many have reciprocal relationships with private clubs. This can widen your net.

Working a Room

Here is my formula for working a room. When attending a large social event, first pause and survey the room. Get a good lay of the land. Pick out a few men you want to approach. Don't rush up to the first man you spot. Approach a new man first and then move to someone familiar. Use this pattern and bounce back and forth between a new man and a familiar someone. As the familiar someone if there is anyone you should meet. When approaching your first friendly person, if you don't them well, just say hello, even if it is another woman or younger person you don't want to really meet. Head for the bar and talk to the first person to your left and the first person to your right. Say hello. It's all very natural and widely accepted behavior, so don't hesitate and just do it!

Book Stores

Join a book club and frequent super bookstores that have tables and chairs. Starbucks is a great place to meet men. You share a common interest. Look at magazine sections of large stores. Browsing presents a cozy atmosphere to interact with others.