How to Attract a Woman and Keep Her by Your Side

In my experience, the average guy out there is not really looking to become your typical pick up artist. Instead of having the desire to roam from bar to bar and nightclub to nightclub, trolling for women, most guys are looking to find a woman that is beautiful and a joy to spend time with. So, if this is what you want to attract, then your focus is going to much different than that of a guy with the schoolboy mentality of how many phone numbers can I get.

With that being said, are there ways that you can attract a woman and KEEP HER by your side?

Here are a couple of tips that will help you do exactly that:

1. Be upfront about things.

If you want to establish a REAL connection with a woman, then you cannot hide behind the routines and the gimmicks that a pick up artist would use. Instead, you have to approach a woman with a much more genuine style. This means that you have to be upfront with her about things. If you are attracted to her, let her know this through your body language, the ways that you talk to her, etc. Don't try and play out the friend role and THEN try and seduce her. This will make you seem like one of those guys that women try hard to steer clear of.

Not only that, it will keep YOU from barking up the wrong tree if she is more the type that IS into playing games.

2. Don't "wuss" out at the slightest of things.

You would be surprised how many guys lose their girls simply because they suddenly turn into a mess when they feel as though they are not getting the attention they want. You have to show her that you are mature about dating and relationships. Otherwise, you lose a lot of long-term VALUE in her eyes.

When you make a big deal out of NOTHING, you make her want to get AWAY from you as quick as possible.

3. Make her "addicted" to you by being irresistible.

I know this sounds like a tall task, but you can make yourself seem irresistible to a woman through many ways. If you are the guy that she KNOWS she can always have a good time with, for example, then it will be hard to shake her off. And if you want to keep her by your side, this is exactly what you want to accomplish.

Women are attracted to men that can handle a mature and adult relationship. Unfortunately, most guys seem to lack the ability to maintain one. If you CAN be the guy that she knows will be able to handle this with ease, then you WILL be able to attract her and keep her.