Why You Shouldn't Tell Men the Whole Truth

When it comes to being fair with men, there is no such thing. You have to be centered, somewhat mysterious and never fully truthful. Be honest but vague. Make everything sound like a puzzle and have fun.

Men always tell fibs. This is a fact. They stretch the truth. Almost 90% of the time. I'm not advocating being distrustful of men. All I'm saying is that you can't believe everything you hear. This is the problem with so many women...they are too gullible.

If a man says he'll call after a few dates, they hang on his every word like it's the gospel. Listen, the man you are so into isn't Peter or Paul so if he says he'll call, just slip options in your mind right away. This way you are mentally ready IF he doesn't follow through to call you and you're not sitting by the phone like a trained parrot.

When you understand how this all works, you wont sweat. You'll take a man's word as a signal that he has to prove what he says. If he is a man of his word you'll give him the time of day. If he's not, you'll take it like a big girl and don't cry over waste.

If you want a man to find you irresistible, you won't spill your guts with him. You simply reserve the right to not tell the whole truth. This is because a man doesn't have to know that your great aunt has some psychiatric problem or that you have an unsightly birthmark that you can't get over.

Don't treat men as if they are your girlfriends. With your girlfriends, you spill your guts to connect and feel close. Men don't have to know you have cramps when you see your period.

You'll keep your privacy when you date smart and you'll let him prove himself to you over time so that you can open up like a beautiful flower. He has to show you he has the power to open you up. You're not going to expose yourself to just anyone so that your secrets are all over the net if it's in the wrong hands.

Remember, men don't connect and feel close through words. They do so through action. When a man is doing something with you or for you, he'll feel close to you but always keep the code and never tell everything.

When he keeps wondering, he'll find you irresistible and this is fact.